Forming meaningful relationships—whether romantic or platonic—is a fundamental human need. For people with disabilities, these connections are just as important, yet opportunities to build them aren’t always easy to find. That’s why Fello hosted a Relationship Social on Friday, September 5th, creating a welcoming space where people we support and their Direct Support Professionals (DSPs) could come together to celebrate the power of human connection.
Breaking Barriers to Connection
At Fello, we believe everyone deserves opportunities to form meaningful relationships. People with disabilities have the same desires for companionship, love, and friendship as anyone else, but too often face barriers that limit their social opportunities.
The Relationship Social was designed to help break down those barriers and create an environment where authentic connections could flourish. The event brought together 23 people supported by Fello and 13 DSPs, who shared laughter, conversation, and connection throughout the evening.
The evening featured games, a soundtrack that kept the party alive, and a presentation by Dr. Karen Harvey, who reminded everyone that relationships take many forms. Dr. Harvey emphasized that meaningful connections do not have to be romantic—platonic friendships are equally valuable and fulfilling. She then guided an interactive session where attendees practiced conversation skills, discovered common interests, and built confidence in a safe, low-pressure environment.
“The energy in the room was incredible,” shared one DSP. “Watching people light up as they connected with others reminded me why this work is so important.”



Training That Makes a Difference
This event was months in the making. Leading up to the social, Dr. Harvey held multiple training sessions for DSPs and the people they support, focusing on how to effectively facilitate relationship-building opportunities. These sessions gave teams practical tools and strategies to encourage connection while honoring boundaries and personal preferences.
Together, they explored:
- The history of institutions and the shift toward respect and empowerment.
- Recognizing and supporting different types of relationships.
- Creating inclusive environments for social interaction.
- Understanding consent and personal boundaries.
- Facilitating meaningful conversations and connections.
Building Capacity for Lasting Impact
At Fello, our commitment to relationship-building doesn’t end after one event. We invest in our team year-round with training and development opportunities that build confidence, strengthen skills, and create better outcomes for the people we support. These trainings ensure that DSPs can confidently support people in pursuing the relationships they want—whether that’s navigating dating, fostering friendships, or simply finding more ways to connect day to day.
Affirming the Power of Connection
The success of our Relationship Social wasn’t about numbers; it was about the genuine bonds formed. At Fello, we know that when people have the chance to connect, they discover more joy, confidence, and belonging.
Creating spaces for relationships is more than hosting an event. It’s how we affirm, every day, that everyone deserves love, friendship, and community.